Boyfriend still has active online dating profile
It’s not always that they don’t want to be with you.It’s more that they aren’t moving along at the same pace you are, so they juggle until they can make up their minds. This will only put him on the defense and he very well may play the blame shifting game as in make you feel like crap for snooping in the first place.I personally still get emails from Match saying I have messages or so and so winked and I haven’t logged onto that site in over two years.I am not on a dating site, even though it appears I am. So before your analyzing mind goes into overdrive, make sure that he is actually active and doesn’t just have some dormant profile up there.
If this is you, stop right here and please check out the Journey Inward and start doing some inner work. You won’t likely find him still active on a dating site.
If you know for a fact that he is online and active, and you decide you must confront him or you will die, don’t go at it in an accusing manner please.
A simple statement like “I noticed you have your online dating profile still up and perhaps I don’t understand the terms of our relationship correctly, could you help me out with this? Not with the ears that want to believe, but with that gut!
A man committed to you would rather lose his arm than cause you despair. If this happens in the beginning of a relationship, it’s actually quite common so don’t freak out.
No need to be reactive especially when he’s not really active on there.
You withdraw emotionally when you see he’s not actually fully in.