It is surprising how many guys have no idea that first dates are going to be more formal than maybe other dates that you go on. It is the first time that you two will be either face-to-face or in a formal dating situation (if they were already your friend). Now whether that means at her house, or from class, or whatever it does not matter.
You go and get that girl and for the love of god...(This also goes for any other door throughout the night guys) Yes I know chivalry is almost dead, but there are still those of us who were beaten by our parents into understanding that a girl should be treated right and have her door open for her.
Or woman are so self involved they have 0 interest in the world around them, and agree with the party at hand with out even knowing what it stands for. Hence most don't read or have good comprehension ,so the visual is all they seem to go by.
I could submit a picture looking like Brad Pit and a description of a homeless man and get tons of response.
Because when you truly know who you are, you don't feel a consuming desire to be with someone you feel you have to mommy. Maybe that's why dumb men exist: to serve as placeholders for smart women while they explore themselves to their own personal satisfaction.
And no one really needs online dating..it's fun and might increase some people's chances to get laid and/or find a significant other. A smart guy can get you under his thumb and keep you there,because he understands your Achilles' heel. Eating disordered people understand this way of thinking: I'm a restricted eater, but I'm a smart lover. Despite the sweet, naive nature of a dumb guy, a relationship simply can't work when there's a measurable intellectual disconnect. I'm just a confused 20-something trying on all the men in the world for size until one feels right. But a dumb guy won't leave a smart woman, because a smart woman always know what's good for him ... My hope is I'll naturally quit gravitating towards the dummies of the world once I've come into my own a bit more. They're interesting only until you realize you want -- nay, NEED -- more. It's a shame that these men have been so uneducated about the things that matter and either too lazy or unwilling to educate themselves more. Garrett was stupidly hot -- in an ex-college football player kind of way. I met him in a bar, and we really hit it off at first.Our tipsy banter was enough to fuel plans for two more dates, but I'd always show him up."I write about dating because it's abstract, but it's so interesting," I said over Thai food."Right," he said.