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The more I started to inquire, the more he started to back-track. If my husband would have left me, I would now be living alone…probably without my children.
Like one other women said to me, trust your gut…ask the questions…if a guy gets ticked off, then he’s not the one (he’s also probably a liar and/or a narcissist). I found out in my quest for answers that this guy has a problem with pornography, has girlfriends in at least 3 states, and is looking for more (and is STILL married). I doubt their marriage will survive, but that’s up to them (and God). I erroneously thought that somehow I was helping to lead this guy to the Lord, when in fact, he was leading me into the pit of hell.
In that sense, they may believe that they can have love and romance and sex without any real commitments.
Many women believe that married men are generally mature and more experienced in relationships than single men.
If a guy really is Christian, he would not lead you to commit adultery, nor justify why he does it. On the other hand, I am so BLESSED that my husband decided to stick in there with me.
We are rebuilding our marriage and it is better than ever. Read your Bible people…it’s the best weapon against ‘the great deceiver’. Tell the guy to look you up if and when he actually does get a divorce (and I don’t just mean filing the papers). You’re better off that way…and remember to “Seek first His Kingdom, and you will be given the desires of your heart.” That’s actually how I met my husband :).
Does it ever bother you why men like married women when they themselves are single?
It is a cliché that has been done to death and yet there are enough number of real cases to support the paradigm.
Women with low self-esteem often don't believe, deep down, that they really deserve a the full attention of a good man, which means settling for whatever love and affection they can get.
I fell in love with a man I knew (and previously dated) in high school.
I had broken up with him 25 yrs ago b/c he cheated on me (I could never prove it, but I knew in my heart) and lied a lot. I run into him 25 yrs later…he and I were going through (supposedly) the exact same life situation…bad marriage on the verge of divorce, unsympathetic spouse, pain, loneliness, etc.
Women have affairs with married men for a variety of psychological reasons.
Some women find it feeds their egos, whereas others are excited by the risk.